I've mentioned my sister from time to time. We are polar opposites: she the prettier, more popular, outgoing and - older sister. Those of you with one will understand; trailing behind like a puppy, wanting to play with her and her friends, a certain standing or hierarchy always awarded to the older sibling. We are only two years apart and shared a bedroom; we know each other like the back of our hand.
We spent many years apart, working and/or raising kids. Now, we have more time to share. We tell each other everything - she is my best friend and loves me more than anyone else in the world. I can't imagine her not being there for me. She is the strong one. Nobody can get one over on her.
This week has been a trial. She went in for a CT scan of her liver and they saw something else on the other side. After every type of scan, she has a large tumor on her adrenal gland above her kidney. It is very rare and after finally getting results from the PET scan yesterday, it is now a question of where to go. I want her to go to MD Anderson. She doesn't like the idea of going to Houston and would like to stay in OKC near her home, daughter and grands. We'll see. Meanwhile, I've been on the couch with a heating pad, nearly immobile with lower back disc thing, for a week. As I've said several times before, sometimes you're the bug...
KK is "my north, my south, my east and west."